Neighbour · The man everybody depends on
Darren “Daz” Cole
Everybody calls Daz. He always says “I’m alright.” Behind the door, it’s bills, money, sleep and pressure.
- Age
- 36
- Background
- Black-British, South London
- Voice
- Funny, warm, quick with a joke, and the joke usually arrives just before anything honest can.
I got so good at saying I’m alright… I forgot what alright actually felt like.
Who he is
Darren Cole is proud, loyal, reliable, stubborn, funny, hard-working and protective. Boiler gone? Call Daz. Lift at four in the morning? Call Daz. Locked out? Daz has a spare. He’s the person the whole estate leans on.
What he shows people
A grin, a joke and two words: “I’m alright.” Humour is how Daz hides the pressure. Jokes are like a coat he puts on before going back outside.
What he carries
Behind his front door: bills, money worries, sleep that never quite lands, and a tiredness he’s never said out loud. He’s quietly overwhelmed, and he’s afraid that if he stops holding everything up, even once, it will all come down.
What he’s learning
That the strongest thing a strong person can say is “I need help.” In Twelve Missed Calls, Daz switches his phone off for one evening, the first time in years. By the morning, people have been checking on him. Then he sends Marcus a text he’s never sent anyone: Can’t do it on my own.
Who he’s close to
His family, Marcus, Samuel, and other men under pressure who recognise themselves in him.
Questions I Ask Myself
If Daz’s story is yours too…
- When did I last tell the truth about how I was?
- Who depends on me so much that I’ve stopped depending on anyone?
- What would “I need help” sound like in my own voice?
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